There are a lot of really important relationships in life, from your spouse to your best girlfriends to the person who cuts your hair. Each of these relationships takes care to flourish.
Your relationship with your kid’s school and teacher is just the same. Here are a few tips to build quality connections:
Show up. The easiest way to be involved in your kid’s school is simply to be part of school events. Teachers really appreciate families that support school activities. Even if you drop by on the way from one practice to the next, your effort is appreciated. Being present also sends the message—to your kids and your school community—that you value learning. Being present matters.
- Be sure to touch base with your teachers each time you have the chance. A quick hello makes a difference. If you need to have a longer conversation, follow up with an email.
Keep up. Schools work hard to keep families in the loop. Be the mom who cleans out backpacks weekly and (mostly) reads the info in the Friday folders. Sign up for school emails and groups and join/follow the social media pages. Do your part to stay up to date.
- Pay special attention to info that comes directly from your child’s class. Teachers are super busy people. If they take the time to send information to you, it’s more than worth reading. Hang on to calendars and other info that you’ll need throughout the year.
- Keep your teacher in the loop, too. If there is a change at home or a trip planned, let her know.
Get up. Mornings are hard for most of us! Make sure your kiddo is well rested, fueled up, and ready to learn every day. The most important learning likely happens in the first 90 minutes, so being on time is important.
Listen up. Teachers love their kids, plus they know a lot about learning. Listen to your teacher’s thoughts and concerns with an open mind. Know that kids sometimes act differently at school with 24 other kids than they do at home. And keep in mind that home and school expectations can be pretty different. If something doesn’t sound right, ask questions so you can better understand.
Step up. Most schools have volunteer opportunities throughout the year. If you can, pitch in to help. Sign up for a shift at the book fair or play day. School staff members appreciate parents who do their part.
- Some teachers, but not all, like classroom volunteers. Ask your teacher how you can help and then follow through.
Speak up. Be a public cheerleader for your school and your teacher. Share the great things going on every chance you can.
- If you have a concern about something happening in your kid’s classroom, start with the teacher. School counselors can help with these conversations if needed. Remember that social media is probably not the best way to share your educational worries.
